We've narrowed down some fantastic gifts for five very specific aesthetics for your best friend who is obsessed with zodiacs to the beach and everything in between.

She said she was upset that I wouldn’t want her there even if she wore her regular clothes and I told her that that’s not fair, that I put in all of this effort for a beautiful event where everyone can be a little extra for one day and I didn’t want her to ruin the aesthetic. A. Warhol (1975) The Philosophy of Andy Warhol (From A to B and Back Again) (New York: Harcourt Brace Jovanovich). Getting your best friend a Christmas gift can be hard, especially because you want it to be perfect. Well I’ve been seeing a lot of those book balls on tiktok recently where people throw huge parties where everyone dresses up extravagantly in ball gowns and those intricate masks and parasols and whatnot and thought it looked super fun, only there weren’t any being held anywhere near me so I decided to hold an intimate one with the girls from my book club.

Today’s Dear Baby tackles three topics: the increasing significance of the “aesthetic” life, the feeling that everyone else is in a huge friend group except you, and how to plan for the future with impending climate catastrophe (possibly my most earnest answer yet). Today, to control how your life looks—your notes, your hair, your apartment—is to communicate who you are.

For example, a star map— a unique and personal gift where you choose a special date and see what the night sky looked like that day. This exclusive TruSkin x Kylie Cantrall bundle includes all of Kylie’s go-to products: a gentle cleansing milk, rose water toner and vitamin C serum. If your kitchen is organized in such a way that it photographs well, that is considered more successful than an organized kitchen that doesn’t.Through the postmodern lens it becomes easier to understand the increasing emphasis of the “aesthetic” in the zeitgeist. How beautiful, on their approach to this beating heart, the steps and forms of the gifted and the true? Tutorials on how to take aesthetic (rather than organized) notes and YouTube tours of color-coded pantries that may not be realistic to maintain are great examples of that. while others said that these types of friends are only in it to “party together” or “take photos”, or both. Today, we actually tend to consider representations more real, or more meaningful, than the subjects they represent, like how a person is more legitimate if they have a web presence, or an event is more legitimate if it’s photographed or recorded.