The Truth About Chastity: A Tease and Denial Handbook

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Chastity lifestyle doesn’t always include two (or more people). It can also be a solo adventure. People decide to take the step for various reasons (and not all of them are kinky!). The keyholder and the chaste person don’t have to be in a close sexual relationship (although that’s often the case). If you’re considering making this a solo adventure, you’ll still need a keyholder, but your relationship with them doesn’t have to be intimate. Seek Outside Counsel Hsieh, Carina; Varina, Rachel (31 July 2019). "Everything You Need to Know About Ruined Orgasms". Cosmopolitan. Archived from the original on 10 October 2019 . Retrieved 17 September 2019.

The first credible usage of chastity belts as tools to help one abstain from sexual impulses appears to be in the 19th century, where they were used to keep women from masturbating. Nowadays, chastity belts are worn by people wanting to stave off any unwanted sexual urges and keep themselves pure until marriage. Ironically, they also enjoy a fair amount of usage in the BDSM community, though we won’t be touching upon that in this article. Instead, we’ll be focusing our attention on the former, and attempting to access what chastity belts do to our thinking and our psychology. At first, I was not interested. It did not turn me on and i did not see any benefit to me. However, he brought the subject up several times and it caused me to think again. Obviously, he was turned on by the idea; it seemed fair for me to play along — at least a little; for the sake of marital peace. Yeah, go figure! Not long after that though, life started to imitate art instead of the other way around, and the first real chastity devices were made. Our aim is to offer high quality products at affordable prices with discreet worldwide delivery. Many chastity belts that we've seen on the market are incredibly expensive and we don't think that's particularly fair, so we do our best to offer the best devices for the lowest prices. All of our products are thoroughly tested to ensure that you receive a safe, quality item that you’re happy to use on a regular basis. Sometimes, it’s good to go into something blind and find your own way of doing things. However, with chastity, we advise you to do some heavy research. We all know that abstaining from orgasms can improve our sex life because it builds up excitement, and there’s also an element of suspense. However, chastity includes much more than that.The erection is not completely suppressed and the swelling puts some pressure on my testicles (which appear by themselves grow bigger and more full during the night). Can there be other complications from this pressure? As ever, the language used changes from person to person, but as you can probably guess, this is about getting someone closer and closer, before denying and cutting off their orgasm. What we wear influences how we act. Wearing clothes that suit us and compliment our style often results in increased levels of confidence and drive. On the other hand, wearing ill-fitting clothes, be it too tight or too loose or clothes that don’t suit the occasion, such as wearing a T-shirt to a wedding, tend to make us shy away from socializing and enforce a negative self-image. Like everything that we wear, chastity belts have a unique influence on our psyche. The question is, what is that influence specifically, and how does it manifest itself? Many people wear chastity belts simply because they wish to remain celibate. This may be motivated by religious or personal beliefs about the sanctity of marriage. Perhaps it simply stems from a disinterest in sex and a desire to protect oneself from threats that would otherwise compromise one’s chastity. Either way, wearing a chastity belt for this reason generally brings about it a sense of calm. Aside from any religious connotations that may contribute to the feeling, the calm is likely due to the fact that the wearer no longer has to worry about sexuality in its entirety. It no longer concerns them, and they’re free to devote their time and mental resources to other things. What we wear affects our psyche. But why we wear it does so too. Wearing a chastity belt can affect our emotions differently depending on the reason that we wear it. Through those emotions, we get a glimpse at the person underneath, and we get to see a small fragment of who they are; the culmination of their nature and their nurture. Regardless of whether others can see them or not, what we wear shows a part of our story. And they say you shouldn’t judge a person by what they wear. But why shouldn’t I judge a book by it’s cover when that’s what the cover is for?

Many women complain that chastity devices are fun when there is sex involved, such as when I am meeting my date and my husband is caged. It gets into both of our heads and creates a fun dynamic. But what about the rest of the week which is filled with work and commitments? We had some rules to remind ourselves of his role. For instance, I dressed first for work and he remained naked until I left the house. This gave him time to make my coffee, make the bed and do other household chores. The presence of the cage, made this routine a little more lively. He wore the cage to work, the gym, and walking the dog.

The psychological effects of wearing a chastity belt explained

The bottom line is men love to wear a chastity cage, and any man who is wearing one is doing so only because he wants to. The stories you read about men being ‘forced’ to wear then are just that – stories. The aim of this wiki is to build an archive of chastity stories. The stories have been divided into 5 sections. Men kept in chastity by women(and vice versa), both lesbian chastity and gay men in chastity, as well as anything that doesn't fit into that category such as where you don't know who the keyholder is or where there are multiple ones. Most of us have females as platonic friends. A good many of us have ex-girlfriends. Both of those are good options. I have always tended to remain friends with my ex-girlfriends after the romantic relationships ended. Just because we weren’t a good fit for a relationship doesn’t mean they aren’t perfectly good friends. Out of my last four ex-girlfriends, I’d be comfortable with asking three of them to be my keyholder. At least two of those I’m pretty sure would agree to do it. I also have two female friends I’ve never dated that are definite maybes. So in a cautious “fake it until you make it” manner, try out the chastity lifestyle and see what works for you and what doesn’t. Learn from your own experience. That’s the best way to figure out if you’re ready for a lifestyle change or not. Switch Sides at Least Once